Japan is a modern Westernized country and Japanese girls are heavily influenced by both American and European culture and their own pop culture in movies, television, and the ubiquitous manga comics. These modern influences have tempered Japanese girl’s view of their roles.
For instance, in Japanese manga comics the most popular heroes tend to be girls and the fads and fashions of Japanese school girls often cross the line from ridiculous to downright bizarre. Your Japanese bride probably did not grow up picking rice or spinning silk.
Further, one of the biggest mistakes men make when deciding to pursue international dating is the mistaken belief that they can simply buy a submissive wife. To some extent this comes from the blatantly false definition of mail order brides that has been foisted on the mainstream media by anti-male, uber-feminists, but it is also a desperate delusion that deeply lonely men trick themselves into.
The modern Japanese wife probably is more deferential to her husband than is common in most Western countries, but she has nothing on American women in the most extreme evangelical churches.
It is all a matter of degrees, but it is worth remembering that one of the primary reason that Japanese women still sign up at mail order bride sites is because they want to escape from the stifling responsibilities of a traditional Japanese wife and mother.
The take away is that if Japanese women were as traditional as their great-grandmothers they probably wouldn’t be thinking about getting involved in International dating.
Source : Modern Japanese Girls
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